Are You Sabotaging Your Success With Impatience?
“What on earth is taking so long?” you ask. “I’m doing all of this work to reach my goals and it’s not happening yet. What gives? And good grief, when’s it going to happen? I want it now!”
If this sounds familiar, you may share a serious condition with Veruca Salt called impatience.
All jokes aside, impatience can lead to the death of our dreams.
Last week, I wrote about the side effect of giving up on our dreams. So, today I want to dive in and talk about impatience.
Deadlines are great. It gives us motivation to do our best work and to get the job done. And a lot of us are motivated by meeting deadlines.
But if we set goals and fail to meet them, frustration and doubt can set in. And then we ask ourselves what happened. Did we do something wrong? Are we not meant to achieve this goal? What’s going on?
That’s where impatience comes in.
You see, if we are working at denying the reality of our senses, if we are doing the work and expecting that it will work out, and truly seeing and believing in it, there’s no time frame on that.
But if we have an idea of when a particular goal is supposed to happen, and we continually see that it’s not happening, we fall into the rut of doubting that it’s going to work out.
We have to ignore the impatience. We have to keep our energy up and keep seeing our desires manifested.
No one knows when it’s going to happen. And it may take longer than we had hoped or planned. But that doesn’t mean it’s not going to happen at all.
So, focusing our attention on the destination, while at the same time enjoying the journey, will help us stay in the high energy frequency of our desires.
That’s why daily EFT/Tapping is so important. It helps to keep us vibrating at high energy frequencies and stay focused on manifesting what we desire.
If we don’t truly believe that we will reach a goal, we probably never will. If we have worries, we’re telling the universe and our subconscious mind that those worries are what we want. We attract the things we focus our attention on.
Focus on achieving your goals rather than on all the things you lack and you’ll start reaching the success you want.
I’ve put together a video to go along with this message. It will help you tap away the impatience that is keeping you focused on all the things you lack. Let’s get started right now! – EFT/Tapping for Impatience Video
I’ll see you there!
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